Bun dilemma

I don't know about you all, but I absolutely hate my hair up. I find it so depressing when I put my hair up and I feel like I cannot do anything. My everyday look will be having my hair a little straightened and definitely down. This is what I normally do. I don't like going to far with styling it, because I always know that I am gonna wash it anyways, so what was the point in that.
But the ponytail it just makes me feel depressed.... not a drama queen, I promise.
And talking about hair styles, one of the most used ones is the bun. Everyone knows how to do a bun and the trend got so far that they are actually a thing now. Just trying to get your hair out of the way or trying to put your hair in a bun, so you don't get your hair wet in the shower, is so popular that you can actually go outside without a problem, and you are still in style.
Now, I have always struggled to get the perfect messy bun, and I think most of you out there wonder how to get the perfect celebrity one. And we try and try and get angry, because it just doesn't look like Cara's or Kendall's and it is really frustrating, when you see so perfect buns and you cannot attend to do one. But we just have to remember, they are celebrities and they probably and ninety precent of the time, they haven't done it themselves.
We just have to keep our calm and go with the flow, when it comes to messy buns, and don't worry that it will not turn out the way hers did.