Monday, February 2, 2015

" Shy "


I know that it doesn't seen like every blogger/vlogger was once a shy person or a person who was too afraid to walk out of their shells. I was like that. I was talking just with my best friends and i was afraid to make new friends because what they may think of me.

Perceptions of people about others are usually wrong. You don't actually know what is in someones soul. You know, when you get to know them, and talk. Putting your life and personality out there on the Internet like many bloggers do, is not that easy. And the people who read,...they think they know you, but in fact, they just know that little piece of you that you posted.

Coming back to the shyness,.... i don't think many people realise how some of us feel. Being quiet makes you anxious and frustrated, at the same time. You try to speak, but no one is listening because you are a "freak"....you already have a label. I had been in that position for my entire life...mostly in school. You are not like that, when you are around family and closest friends. I still have issues with making new friends and i don't like it, but lately i figure something out on my own. I went to high school and it wasn't really the best experience that i had. All of my friends were very happy with all the teenager experience, but i wasn't because i was anxious and i couldn't think of anything else than people judging me. And i realise that you can make for yourself a new label wherever you want and however you want. You wake up one day and you say that you don't want to feel like crap anymore, so you go out there, in the world and show everyone that you are not the way they thought you were. With bravery and confidence you can trace for yourself whatever new path in life you want.


                                               :-*

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